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Mid-life is a time to shed the external should-haves (I should stay in my corporate job. I should pursue the next promotion. I should move to a bigger house to convey my status.) and focus on the all-important "musts" for your life (I must do what I enjoy. I must take control of my life' direction). So much of this relates to the work we do. A strong self-image is essential to defeat both the external "should-haves" and, more importantly, to put into motion the "musts."
Murray and Heather did this when they sold their house and set sail on a new life adventure. Tamah and Bonnie did this by giving up "prestigious" jobs to follow their dreams. They all ignored the pressure to do what they should have and instead found the courage to do what they must.
In mid-life, it's your self-perception that counts the most and you'll need a healthy one to create an even greater second half of life. Understand what your musts are, and steel yourself against the onslaught of family, colleagues, and well-meaning friends who will pressure you to follow the should-haves. It's your life," My former musical friend was now in the hall, and it's never too late to start living it.